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A Letter From The Elder Team - Nov 12, 2020

Agape Family,

We continue on in this journey through 2020 and beyond with hope and joy knowing that we have the opportunity to celebrate the immovable truths that call us forward in our mission. Some of those truths are:
God is sovereign and reigns over all the affairs of man and is not caught off guard by anything that happens in this world.
Jesus is the victorious risen king seated at the right hand of the Father, and he has given us the high-calling of discipleship.
We have been blessed with the precious gift of the Holy Spirit that empowers us, guides us and lovingly course corrects us when needed and comforts us in our weakness. The church is the light of the world and we are ambassadors of God’s love.

Let us encourage you to hold on to these and many other core truths that help us stay focused on what is true and what really matters. We would also like to continue to encourage you to stay engaged with our Sunday gatherings, whether it be in person or online. If you choose our online venues though, we would suggest you find other ways to maintain community and engagement with your church family, whether it be through smaller informal gatherings or by connecting with a life group or Bible study.

When we are together, whether it be on Sunday or another time, please keep that razor-sharp focus that Pastor Dave talked about last week. Our gatherings and encounters with one another should be times of encouragement and refreshing that glorify God as we hold out hope in the world we live in. In particular, when we gather in person on Sunday’s at church, this is a time for worship, for prayer and to gather around God’s Word together. May we always be mindful of the words of our mouth and the attitudes of our hearts.

This Sunday, November 15th, we will be returning to a one service format! We’re very excited about this. This will make things a little easier for our incredible volunteers, cause us to be less fragmented as a body and allow us to move forward in our process to one day “return to normal.”

Here are some details:
The service will be at 10:00 a.m. with pews marked for social distancing.
Please wear your mask while in the building. As always, we will have some available for you if you need one.
Please use best practices by hand sanitizing and maintaining safe distancing.

Also, if you become sick and have a positive COVID test, please take 2 Sundays off from in-person gathering and contact anyone you have been in close proximity with.  Also, the elders are fully available to come and pray with you, so please let us know if this something you would need.

Thank you for continuing to prove how powerful the love of God is by walking victoriously in the midst of this time. May you continue to experience the overwhelming love of the presence of God in your lives and in your homes.

The Agape Elder Team

A Letter From Pastor Dave - Oct. 13, 2020

Dear Agape Family,

Well, here we are in early October! The weather has shifted and the leaves are changing. Fall in Michigan is certainly a special time of year. We hope you are all doing well and enjoying not only the benefits of this season, but also enjoying the benefits of life in Christ. This letter will serve as a one-month follow-up to our last communication that announced our return to indoor meetings. But first, thank you for your continued prayer and understanding in regards to the difficult nature of this time we find ourselves in and the decisions that come as a result. We always want to remember that although we are paying close attention to CDC guidelines and to our government
issued mandates, we also receive perfect direction for our hearts and attitudes during this time from
God’s Word.

I urge you to live a life worthy of the calling you have received. Be completely humble and gentle; be
patient, bearing with one another in love. Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the
bond of peace. Ephesians 4:1-3

Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness,
humility, gentleness and patience. Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a
grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues, put on love,
which binds them all together in perfect unity. Colossians 3:12-14

Therefore, if you have any encouragement from being united with Christ, if any comfort from his love, if
any common sharing in the Spirit, if any tenderness and compassion, then make my joy complete by
being like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and of one mind. Do nothing out of selfish
ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own
interests, but each of you to the interest of others. Philippians 2:1-4

Here are our current guidelines with an update:
We will continue to have two services. This allows us to follow distancing guidelines and also
affords us some flexibility to have differing practices for each service.

We are also going to ask that you continue to wear a face covering when you enter the building
and are in the common spaces such as hallways and restrooms.

The first service at 9:00 a.m. will still be a mask mandatory service. For those that choose to
attend this service, we ask that you wear a face mask the entire time you are in the building.

The second service at 10:30 a.m. will be mask optional during the message. Again, we ask that
a mask be worn in common spaces and during worship, but you may remove your mask once
you are seated if you choose. This change will go into effect on Sunday October 18.

You will receive updates from Joe Sturgeon and Stephanie Rudd regarding any changes in the
youth and children’s ministries.

As always, our elder team is available to you if you have any questions regarding our process. We
appreciate your prayers.

The Agape Elder Team

A Letter From Pastor Dave - Sept. 3, 2020

Agape Family,

We have so much to be thankful for even in the midst of these challenging times. So, please allow us to begin this letter with two things.

1. Praising God for His faithfulness, presence and the hope we have in Him through Jesus Christ.
2. Thanking you as a church family for your resolve and commitment while we walk through a very unusual time in our world.

The purpose of this letter is to bring you the exciting announcement that we are restarting our indoor Sunday services in the sanctuary on September 13th! We will go over some guidelines in this letter for how we plan to do this, but before we get into that, let’s start with some good reminders from God’s Word.

We are called to value meeting together for encouragement. Hebrews 10:23-25 tells us to hold on to our hope, to spur one another on toward love and good deeds, and to not forsake meeting together.

We are called to humbly seek unity together. Ephesians 4:2-3 tells us we should be humble, gentle, and patient, bearing with one another in love. We should work to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.

We are called to prefer others above ourselves. Romans 12:9-12 tells us to be devoted to each other in brotherly love by honoring one another above ourselves and to be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer. Philippians 2:1-4 tells us to seek being like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and purpose; to also do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others as better than yourself. We should not only look to our own interests, but also the interests of others.

These are some of the passages, among others, that have guided our discussions as elders. Please prayerfully consider them. The elders have been very prayerful in these decisions, and the plan we are presenting to you today is only a starting point. We will keep praying for wisdom and we will make adjustments as needed. But for the time being, here is what you can expect.

We will have two services. The first service will be at 9:00 and the second will be at 10:30.
We will have every other row taped off and we ask that you sit as a family.
We will require the use of masks inside of the building at both services. If you are medically unable to wear a mask the whole time, we understand, and offer you the ability to take breaks from wearing it. We are not requiring masks for children under the age of five.
We will have masks available at our hand sanitizing station just inside the main entrance. We will have a second hand sanitizing station at the entrance to the sanctuary.
If you prefer giving your offering via cash or check, we will have an offering drop box just inside the narthex doors leading into the sanctuary. Of course, you may still give online as well.
We ask that you respect people’s boundaries, particularly while inside the building. This may include not hugging or shaking hands unless you know that persons preferences.
We ask that you help us and others in the church to keep a spirit of unity and encouragement!
And please, of course, if you or a family member have been sick or experiencing any symptoms, please join us from home. We will continue live streaming our service to both our Facebook page and YouTube channel.

If you are the parent of a nursery, children’s church or youth group child, please be on the lookout for communication from our staff in those areas. They are each working very hard to offer great ministry options for you. Of course, children are welcome to stay with you in the sanctuary as well.

We definitely understand that there will be varying views on the approach we’ve chosen to take on meeting together. We would just ask two things:

1. Understand that this is a starting point. It is not permanent and we will continue to prayerfully seek God’s wisdom in making future adjustments.
2. Please show grace and understanding towards the pastor, leaders, staff and fellow church members during this time.

Agape is an incredible church because it is filled with incredible people who love God and love each other and want to have an impact on the world we live in. Let’s continue to press in to God together!

The Agape Elder Team

A Letter From Pastor Dave - May 29, 2020

Agape Family,

My heart and my prayer is that this letter finds you all healthy and experiencing the peace and joy that can only come from the Lord. There seems to be a great emphasis being placed on the uncertainty of the times we find ourselves in. But I will always do my best to emphasize a greater certainty; that Jesus is Lord and is seated as the victorious One at the right hand of the Father. Also, He has given us His Spirit that we may have access to all the benefits of His victory over sin and death. We are more than conquerors as his dearly loved. As a result, we can live lives of great peace, joy and love.

The purpose of this letter is to communicate our plan to return to public gatherings at Agape’. With that said, please know that this is something the elders and I began to pray into and discuss almost immediately after the closure began. Please know that it has always been our heart to return to public meeting in the soonest and most responsible way possible. However, there are far more things to consider in this action than just our desire to be together and our knowledge that our corporate meetings are of great importance.

It is also good for us to remember that God was not caught unaware by any of this. So, we have leaned heavy into the One who’s ways are higher than our ways and thoughts are higher than our thoughts. It is also good to trust that God has and will continue to bring good out of a challenging time. For those things we are thankful.

We are also thankful for you… our Agape family. You have demonstrated incredible faith, grace and encouragement during this time! Please continue in that spirit. Also, please continue to pray for the staff and leaders as we navigate very difficult waters. Let us all acknowledge together that although the opinions on how such a time should be handled vary greatly, what doesn’t vary among us is what remains; faith, hope and love. Let us be steadfast in faith, audacious in hope and generous in love.

One of our guiding scriptures in this transition back comes to us from Philippians 2:3-4.

“Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit. But in humility count others as more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to your own interests, but also the interest of others.”

Please do not read this letter with the mind that you should “be agreed with” but read it with the heart to “come into a place of understanding.” We must remember that we are joined in community with many God-fearing and caring people who may see things differently than we do. So, we do our best to again, seek God for wisdom and guidance. As a result, we have developed a phased plan that looks like this:

PHASE 1 – Beginning the first week of June, we are inviting Life Groups to meet weekly and in person, if they are not already. We are encouraging our Life Group Leaders to have frank and open discussions with their life groups to determine the level of interest in meeting in person. These conversations should be like Colossians 4:6 instructs us, “full of grace.” We are uploading Life Group meeting information on our web site so that anyone who is interested in joining a life group will have all of the details they need. For those that do not wish to join a life group or feel ready for public gatherings, we will continue our video content just as we have been which will be published on Facebook and on our YouTube channel.

Also, during this phase, for those that do not belong to a life group, but still want to meet, or for those that are comfortable with a public gathering, I will be hosting a small and simple gathering at church on Sunday mornings at 10a.m. in the fellowship hall beginning June 7th. These gatherings will be very stripped down with acoustic lead worship and a shorter message. It will be the same message that is on the online video. If you plan to attend these small gatherings, please know that we will be following the CDC recommended guidelines for faith communities to the best of our abilities. For more information on that please visit:

The use of a face mask is not required, but encouraged. If you choose not to wear one, please be extra considerate in your interaction with others. There will not be childcare or children’s ministry at church gatherings during this phase.

PHASE 2 – Increased size of Sunday public gatherings. Phase 2 is a little slippery because we don’t have enough information yet. However, the heart behind it is to increase our gathering number and take another step toward full services. The format will likely be very simple with families staying together (still no Children’s Ministry or Nursery). But we will likely return to the sanctuary at this point and also offer other venues in the building in the Lounge and Gathering space, etc. This will allow us to practice safe distancing when needed.

During this phase we will look at having whole church outdoor services at the church with the option to either be on the lawn or stay in your cars as well. We are planning our first whole-church outdoor service for July 5th. Then, as weather permits, we will plan on doing these whole church outdoor services in the subsequent weeks after July 5th. If the weather does not permit, we will return to our smaller indoor gathering. We are also hoping to set the outdoor services up in such a way that if you are more comfortable in your car, you will still be able to participate from the parking lot.

PHASE 3 – Return to regular Sunday gatherings. The timing of each phase will depend both on CDC guidelines, other wisdom provided, and, of course as we rely heavily on the Word and the Spirit. We will do our best to communicate with each change. Our hope is that we are back to full gatherings at church by the end of summer. Please pray that God move in power and that we have a safe and expedient return to this point!

Thank you again everyone for your love, grace and understanding.

In addition to our re-gathering information, I also want to communicate some other exciting news. We are using the time being afforded by this period to make some long overdue upgrades to our sanctuary. When we remodeled the rest of our facility five years ago, it was certainly a hope to be able to bring some modest updates to our sanctuary as well. I’m always reminded of the sweet elderly lady who visited one Sunday after not being in our building since the 80’s. As I walked her to the sanctuary she commented on how great the remodel was. When we entered the sanctuary, she turned to me and said, “Oh, this area is still quite outdated!” I got a good laugh at that, but it was certainly a reminder how we can get in a pattern of seeing things only through our familiar eyes.

So, I’m very excited to tell you about the updates we will be making this month. We will be modifying and increasing the size of our stage by removing the small rooms to each side and expanding the front of the stage 4 feet forward in the middle. We are renovating the east (stage) wall of the sanctuary to be more uniform and conducive to stage lighting. We are replacing the old stage lighting with new theatrical and stage lighting and lighting board. Our current lighting set-up and board are probably the oldest things in our entire facility (again I’m laughing). We are replacing the overhead lights with new and more efficient LED lighting. We will do some other mild paint and refreshing items as well.

In terms of finances for this project, this is something we have long planned for and we have the cash in reserves to handle the project and be able to maintain a responsible reserve and general fund level. Although we could use reserve funds for this project, we wanted to present the opportunity for the congregation to contribute specifically to make this happen. We have already received donations in this way! You may give either through our website (sanctuary fund) or by mailing a check to the church and writing “sanctuary fund” in the memo.

We so appreciate your faithfulness in giving over the years and certainly during these past months. Please continue to press into faith in this area! God will always bless our trust in Him! We are so thankful for a church that is faithful and always open to looking to the future of what God has in store for us. We are a church that firmly believes that God has given His Spirit for creativity and vision and has called us into a bright future! We believe these changes are not only necessary, but will well equip us to continue in the ministry God is calling us into for years to come.

I would like to close this letter by thanking the elders, the deacons, the staff and you. These plans have not come from one person, but a church of people that blow me away with their capacity for love and for ministry. It has come out of many prayers, meetings and conversations. I so appreciate each and every one of you. God Bless.

On Behalf of the Elders,